EMIS – The European MSM (men who have sex with men) Internet Survey conducted the largest study about MSM in Europe with about 180,000 participants and 38 countries. (All results in a PDF file)

According to the study your chances of having sex with as man are the highest in France, Netherlands, Belgium and on Malta. It seems France really is the country of love, 38% of all French guys had over 10 sex partners the last 12 months.  In Netherlands  37% and in Belgium as well as on Malta 33% of all guys had over 10 sex partners the last 12 months. The European average is 20%.

Oral sex is the most popular kind of sex, followed by giving/receiving a hand-job and anal sex. The chances of having anal sex are the highest in Moldova, Russia, Portugal and Spain, Belarus. The most anal sex have guys from Moldova (94% of all guys), followed by guys from Russia, Portugal (91% ) and Spain,Belarus (90%).  On average 85% of all European MSN have anal sex.

If you look for a serious relationship with a man your chances are the highest in Belarus, Russia and Ukraine. 53% of all gay guys in Belarus are in a steady relationship with a man, followed by Russia with 52% and Ukraine 49%. On average 38% of all European gay, bi guys are in a steady relationship with man.

The most favourite place to get in contact, meet men is on the Internet. Followed by sex venues, including gay saunas and backrooms of bars, clubs.  59% of all European guys have met a man via the Internet in the last 12 months. Particular in Bosnia Herzegovina (77% of all guys) , in Turkey (71% ) and in Croatia (70%) the Internet was a popular way to get to know men. While 16% of all European guys have met a man at a sex venue.  To meet men at a sex venue is most popular in Netherlands (30%) , France, Belgium(26%) and Switzerland (25%.)

Unfortunately there is also always the risk of getting infected with HIV when you have unprotected sex with a guy. The highest possible HIV transmission risk in the previous 12 months, defined as unprotected sex with men whose HIV status is unknown or different from the own status , was in  Turkey (49%),  Romania (42%) and Belarus (40%). While the lowest risk was in Luxembourg (21%), Switzerland (22%) and Austria (23%). On average 32% of all European men had unprotected sex with other men whose HIV status was unknown or different from their own status.

Ahh, gotta love these “straight” guys and their constant fascination with anal sex. Me thinks the lady doth protest too much.

Anyway, for a church with 6.9 million members, only 5% of which actually attend Sunday services, I would think that Pastor Sandahl would be eager to welcome anyone into his church willing to fork over a little cash to help save their soul.

In many ways, to ask people to accept gay men, is to ask them to understand and embrace anal sex. Yes, that is not ALL we do in the bedroom, but it’s one of the important things in our sexual lives.

Whenever I hear the statement that “gay/butt sex is not natural,” I wonder if this person knows anything about biology or animals that live in groups. All of nature loves some back door hanky panky; monkeys do it, dolphins do it, even… ok, I’ll stop now before it turns into a Cole Porter song.

Have we always been so shy about our behinds? In the late 1800s French professional farter and entertainer Joseph Pujol, known as Le Pétomane, was a staple at the Moulin Rouge nightclub where he would play musical instruments with his butt, blow out candles from several feet away. He wasn’t farting though, he would suck air in through his butt and then forcibly expel it. He could also suck water out of a bowl with his backside. Now, that’s a power bottom.

Today we’re shining some light into the place where the sun doesn’t shine. What are some common misconceptions about anal sex? How do porn stars do all that sex in movies? Besides using condoms, what are some new ways you can protect yourself from HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases?

Taped live at the Center on Halsted in Chicago Illinois- we’re joined by our bootylicious group of sex-experts: Chicago Porn Star J.C. Carter, Dr. Will Wong of the Chicago Department of Public Health and our very own Jim Pickett of the AIDS Foundation of Chicago and Project IRMA.

Click here for a complete photo gallery of the event.

We loved getting our picture taken pretending to enter the Tunnel of Love in Swan Boat created by Scott Bradley and Mike Miller from the Scooty and JoJo Show. Thank you boys! It was very romantic!

Thank you to all the sponosrs of the event- Steamworks, Center on Halsted, Project Crysp and Lifelube.

•• To find a GLBT friendly doctor, visit the Gay & Lesbian Medical Association’s website search engine.
•• To anonymously notify a sexual partner about an STD, go to InSpot.org.

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