These guys identify as gay. (Photo courtesy of Glenn Witman) Openly gay rec league players such as Kirby Pumper (from left), Pierre Tardif and Kurt Gabrielson, who compete at the Friendship Cup, are promoting diversity at the grass-roots level.

Dillon is part of a growing trend of young men who are secure in their heterosexuality and yet remain aware of their potential to experience far more—sexual attractions, sexual interactions, crushes, and, occasionally romantic relationships with other guys. Dillon lives these contradictions—seemingly hetero guys who now reject that label, sexual description, and identity.

Check out this fascinating interview with Dillon, a college varsity hockey goalie who identifies as straight but enjoys sex with men every once in a while.

– Read more: Can Men Have Sex With Men and Still Call Themselves Straight?

(CNN) — Robert Winn met his wife, Christine, in college. He was a fraternity boy. She was a sorority girl. Early in their relationship, he made a confession, a thorny secret he camouflaged from his closest family and friends.

The truth sputtered out awkwardly.

Sensing his nervousness, she speculated he would announce he was sick — or perhaps dying?

He told her he was bisexual.

On the surface, Robert Winn, now 40, and Christine Winn, 41, appear to be like any other blissfully married heterosexual couple. They boast nearly 18 years of monogamous marriage. He’s a well-respected physician, who works with the LGBT community in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. She’s a successful hospital administrator.

The couple says they’ve grown closer over time, but like any marriage, two people can have differences — including sexual orientation. Christine Winn is straight, and she has been supportive of her husband, who is openly bisexual.

“I don’t think about it [his bisexuality] as a part I have to accept,” she said. “It’s just a part of him like any other husband who loses their socks on the floor or doesn’t take the trash out.”

Her husband feels a sexual and emotional attraction toward men and women. While he fantasizes about Angelina Jolie just as his straight male friends might do, he is also attracted to Brad Pitt.

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- Via 9Gag

When talking about sex and gay men, the fear of danger, diseases and risk usually become the focus. Why does it have to be this way? Why not talk about the fantastic sex we do have? What about our friendships, our creativity and our communities?

After all, being gay is not just good, it’s fabulous!

To many people, gay sex automatically means penetration even though not all men are into the booty. What other things do we like to do? What turns us on and brings us pleasure?

Join us live from the Center on Halsted with a panel of experts psychologist Dr. Gary Harper, activist Keith Green and sex educator Samuel R. Galloway. Listen as we explore desire and ways we can be intimate, sensual and loving with each other.

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Today, he’s the smart and funny editor of Queerty, a news blog for gay men and their fans. Free of an agenda, except a gay one.

Listen as Japhy takes us on a behind the scenes tour of one of the most popular gay blogs and answers your questions through Facebook about the function and future of gay media, our push and pull with sexual objectification and how Facebook might affect your blog.

Why do so many sites dedicated to sexy men feature predominantly Caucasian men? It’s not just one blog or another. Unless the site is dedicated specifically to a certain body type or race, generic sites or forums dedicated to male beauty usually have a bunch of white male athletes in them. Are we all bigots or is there something else happening here?

Japhy weighs in on the fight between his old college buddy, Perez Hilton and Miss California over gay marriage. Is this public catfight good for marriage equality? I certainly think so, but I can imagine that there are people out there who don’t like having a celebrity gossip blogger (even a very successful one) fighting with a beauty pageant contestant as a way of advancing gay rights.

Well, why not? Progress happens sometimes in many unusual ways. Perez is really well spoken, and he’s got game (the internet kind) to back it up. Let the pinked haired one speak!

Japhy also dishes on his own video blog and who’s overrated on Youtube and who we’re missing out on.

Japhy has some great insight into the hot gay news items of the day so don’t miss this one.

Always fresh, funny & fabulous: Feast of Fun.

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Marc always is telling me that if someone wants to play Truth or Dare with you, chances are they want to get you naked for some hot lovin’.

Our pal Gerry here (pictured on the right) says he only likes group sex when he’s single, and loves monogamy when he’s in a relationship. It’s all or none. Jerry is an expert on getting two guys to go home from a bar with him.

But if bars aren’t your thing, how do you find two other hot guys to roll in the hay with? How do you keep people’s feelings from getting hurt? How do you make the most of the experience?

We’re joined by two fabulous Chicago gay Puerto Rican artists, Carlos Torres and Jerry Peréz. They are Other Ricans, a term used to identify Puerto Ricans living outside of the island.

Carlos is holding a viewing party for “A Sealed Fate” a bold new documentary about the plight of baby seals at the Silver Room in Chicago on Wednesday December 3. The documentary follows Nigel Barker of “America’s Next Top Model” as he witnesses the hunt for the the baby seal pelts.

Gerry is showing his photography work at Ache, Gigi Deluxe’s big art event in Pilsen this Friday November 14th at “2nd floor Gallery” in the heart of Pilsen.

President Elect Barack Obama and first lady to be Michelle made a historic visit to the earlier this week White House, hanging out with the Bushes and measuring for new drapes.

But will disgruntled Republican steal all the O’s from the computer keyboards before they leave like the Clinton staff did with the “W” when Bush came into office? You heard it here first folks.

Sometimes I feel like I’m opening up a Pandora’s box of discord by planting the idea out there, ripe for bitter Republicans to take a bite.

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