Ask Jim Pickett Anything- Get Your Butt Out of the Sand
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UPDATE: Here’s the link to “Get Your Butt Out of the Sand” where we answer your questions. Talking to gay health advocate Jim Pickett about your butt! Yes, your butt. His blog Lifelube has started […]
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I’m HIV positive, and I only play with other Poz guys, do we choose not to use condoms. I am worried about getting anal warts or herpes, what’s a good way to protect myself and not use condoms? Or should I just bite the bullet and make them wrap it up?
Why does anyone want to have anal sex in the first place? Is it really that pleasurable, am I missing out on something. I’m not a prude or anything, I just don’t understand why so many folks want it up the butt.
What kind of exercises can I do to loosen up for sex? I figure if I’m more relaxed, it will be more pleasurable for me and my boyfriend.
Is there a type of lube you guys recommend for anal sex? I’ve heard that silicone based lubes are safer for anal, and help reduce the transmissions of STDs. Is that true?
Some lubes may actually be bad for anal sex and increase your chances of getting an infection.
http://www.metroweekly.com/domestic_partner/sex/?ak=5366
I think anything silicon is the best for sure. Its nice and silky smooth and not sticky and you don’t have to re-apply as much as water based. ID Millennium or Wet platinum… Swiss navy is nice too
KY Liquid if it’s a big one.
My partner has told me he has HPV that affects the area around his anus. We’re getting tested on thurs together but how does one deal with this issue when intercourse comes into play?
How often can you anal douche and still be safe? I heard you shouldn’t do it too much otherwise it will dry up and cause tears. I usually do it once or twice a week but with a booty busy weekend sometimes I want to do it more.
We are taping right now and will try to get to all your questions!
Done taping, thanks!